Beyond a situation involving physical death, I wondered why it’s so hard to say goodbye to the past. The title of this article is from a song in the movie Cooley High. Someone sang the song at the funeral of Cochise, the best frie...
Nearly five years ago, I posted on Instagram that I hate Syngonium houseplants and swore not to buy one again. Well, you know what the old folk used to say about never saying never, right? In this article, I discuss why I love the...
I am continuing my articles on trying new plants, and it’s another Hoya. The Hoya Lacunosa Mint has small, shiny, variegated mint-colored leaves. I am a huge fan of plants with large, dark, trailing leaves. So, I hit one of my thr...
I love trailing plants, but some scare me. Hoya is one such plant for reasons I will share below. But even with that, sometimes we have to muster the courage to try houseplants we might otherwise pass up. How do you encourage your...
As parents of adult children, we must let go of what used to be if we want to move forward. As children grow up, it can be difficult for parents to do that. However, as the song “You Don’t Bring Me Flowers” reminds us, “Used-to-be...
In this blog, I will serve up the gumbo on issues about Empty-Nest Syndrome.
I write to those with grown children who are no longer as accessible as their parents prefer. It is for parents who have prepared for this season of their life, and those who did not think they needed to prepare. But then reality set in. If you’re like me, you felt a deep sadness months before that fateful day because you knew it was coming.
Why Gumbo?
I call this blog Talk Gumbo because I am from New Orleans, and gumbo is our most globally known dish. It has lots of ingredients. Like gumbo, empty nesting has many parts that shape our lives. Yet they all work together to play vital roles in who we have become as empty nesters.
New Hurdles With Each Stage
If you can relate, this blog is for you. We will help one another to get through the most challenging days and learn to thrive in our new reality. I encourage you on this journey even as I encourage myself. But keep in mind that new hurdles will unravel at each stage of your ENS.
In closing, I am here to help you appreciate every phase of it! Keep watching this space.
Beyond a situation involving physical death, I wondered why it’s so hard to say goodbye to the past. The title of this article is from a song in the movie Cooley High. Someone sang the song at the funeral of Cochise, the...